If you continue to be like this, you will see after some time, they have no choice at all.
如果你繼續(xù)這樣子（愛著），你會(huì)發(fā)現(xiàn)，一段時(shí)間后他們就完全沒有選擇了。
Emotion is a very powerful thing. This is not a trick. This is a way of being, this is an intelligent way to exist.
情感是很有力量的，這不是種花招，而是一種身心的狀態(tài)，是一種智慧的活法。
Participant: Sadhguru can you share something on how to build goodwill and manage perceptions.
參與者：薩古魯，關(guān)于如何營造友善，如何管理形象，您能分享一下嗎？
Sadhguru: So, how to build goodwill? I was doing a program for one of the top awa… you know, really one of the largest multinational company in the world. Top twenty-five executives, it’s a two-day event. I had nine volunteers with me; Isha Foundation is a completely volunteer-run organization. And these nine volunteers were managing everything for the program and on the second day, one of these executives asked me, “Sadhguru, where do you get such people?” Because they are always looking for attrition. You know? “Where do you get such people?” I said, “You don't get them. You got to make them.” “How do you make them?” I said, “You have to make them fall in love with you.” “Oh, how do we do that?” I said, “First you must fall in love with them.” Then they say, “Oh, they don't pay us for that” (Laughter). So, that's all it is.
Sadhguru（薩古魯）：那么，如何營造友善？我那時(shí)候在一個(gè)頂尖…… 在全球最大的跨國公司之一開設(shè)課程，25個(gè)頂級(jí)執(zhí)行官，那是一個(gè)兩天的活動(dòng)。我?guī)Я?個(gè)志愿者，Isha基金會(huì)是一個(gè)完全由志愿者運(yùn)營的組織，這9個(gè)志愿者忙乎著項(xiàng)目里里外外所有事情。第二天的時(shí)候，一個(gè)執(zhí)行官問我，“薩古魯，你在哪里弄來的這些人？”因?yàn)樗麄円恢毕胫鴾p員。你知道嗎？“你從哪里弄來的這些人？”我說，“你不是去弄來他們。你得造就他們?！薄澳闳绾卧炀退麄儯俊蔽艺f，“你得讓他們愛上你?！薄班?，我們要怎么做到呢？”我說，“首先你必須愛上他們?！比缓笏麄冋f，“哦，他們可沒付這個(gè)錢?！保ㄐΓ┧?，就是這樣。
So, you cannot build goodwill, you have to exude goodwill. If you offer it to everybody, then it comes back to you in many ways. But you don't worry whether it comes back to you or not. This should be your way of living. This should be a way of being that you naturally include everybody in everything that you are. Some will respond, some will not respond and it's fine. It's their choice. But as far as you're concerned, there's no choice. You have fallen in love with everybody. For them, they can choose still. But after some time they’ll lose their choice, they'll have no choice. If you continue to be like this, you will see after some time they have no choice at all. Initially they act like they have a choice. But after a while they'll have no choice.
所以，你無法營造友善，你得流露友善。如果你對每個(gè)人都奉獻(xiàn)出友善，友善就會(huì)以很多種方式回到你這里。但是你不要擔(dān)心它會(huì)不會(huì)回來，這應(yīng)該成為你的活法。這應(yīng)該成為一種身心的狀態(tài)，那就是，你自然而然地將每個(gè)人都包容到你所是的一切中來。有些人會(huì)回應(yīng)，有些不會(huì)，這沒事，這是他們的選擇。但就你而言，你沒有選擇，你愛上了所有人。他們呢，他們還有得選擇，但一段時(shí)間后，他們也會(huì)別無選擇，他們會(huì)沒得選擇。如果你繼續(xù)這樣（愛著），你會(huì)發(fā)現(xiàn)，一段時(shí)間后，他們就毫無選擇了。一開始，他們表現(xiàn)得像有所選擇一樣，但，一段時(shí)間后，他們會(huì)別無選擇。
So, don't try to build goodwill. See, when I say fall in love with something. All I'm saying is what you refer to as love is just a certain pleasantness of your emotion. Emotion is a very powerful thing. Though people talk all intellectual nonsense, still world is driven by human emotion. Yes, isn't it so? Who gets elected is still driven by emotion, isn't it? Who is popular in the country or in the world is still driven by emotion, isn't it? People that you have never set your eyes upon, they are the people you are in love with. Please see. Yes? You see an Amitabh Bachchan or a Tendulkar or a Brad Pitt or somebody or maybe Angelina Jolie, I'm sorry I’m leaving out the women. You're in love with people that you have never seen, because that is the nature of your emotion. So, emotion is a powerful tool.
所以，不要試著去營造友善。你看，當(dāng)我說愛上某物，我的意思就是，你所說的“愛”，只是你情感的一種愉悅感。情感是很強(qiáng)大的東西，雖然人們談著各種聰明的廢話，這個(gè)世界還是由人們的情感驅(qū)動(dòng)的。是的，不是嗎？誰會(huì)當(dāng)選，還是受情感影響，不是嗎？在這個(gè)國家，在這個(gè)世界上，誰受歡迎，還是受情感影響，不是嗎？你見都沒見過的人，你們愛上的都是這些人。請明白。是嗎？你看了一部阿米特巴·巴強(qiáng)或騰都卡爾，布萊德·皮特或者…… 也許是安吉麗娜·朱莉的電影。對不起，我漏了女士。你愛上了見都沒見過的人，因?yàn)檫@就是你情感的本質(zhì)。所以，情感是個(gè)很強(qiáng)大的工具。
So, if you can manage a steady sweetness of your emotion, you are in love with everything around you. If you are like this, people can't help it. They will fall. this is not a trick. This is a way of being; this is an intelligent way to exist, because whether they fall in love with you or not, your life is very pleasant and sweet. Whether somebody loves you or not doesn't make a difference. It is just that you are loving that makes your life very pleasant. So goodwill, don't… there is no trick to build goodwill. That is called cunning, you know. There is no trick, you just be like this. Those who respond will respond, those who don't, don't. What is the problem?
所以，如果你可以穩(wěn)定地維持著情感上的甜蜜，你就會(huì)愛上身邊的所有事物。如果你成了這樣，人們就會(huì)情不自禁，他們會(huì)愛上你，這不是花招，這是一種身心的狀態(tài)，是一種智慧的活法。因?yàn)椴徽撍麄儠?huì)不會(huì)愛上你，你的人生都會(huì)非常愉悅，非常甜蜜。某個(gè)人是否愛上你，沒什么差別，重點(diǎn)是，你在愛，是這個(gè)讓你的人生變得非常愉悅。所以，友善, 別…… 營造友善，沒什么花招，那叫狡猾，你知道的。沒什么花招，你只要像這樣（愛著），會(huì)回應(yīng)的自然會(huì)回應(yīng)，不回應(yīng)的，就不會(huì)，有什么問題呢？
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