舉得起放得下的叫舉重，舉得起放不下的叫負重?？上?，大多數(shù)人的愛情，都是負重的。
If you can hold something up and put it down, it is called weight-lifting; if you can hold something up but can never put it down,it's called burden-bearing. Pitifully, most of people are bearing heavy burdens when they are in love.
