1、如果有緣,錯過了還會重來;如果無緣,相遇了也會離開。聚有聚的理由,離有離的借口,人生沒有如果,只有后果和結果。
If fate, missed will come again; if not, meet will also leave. There are reasons for gathering and excuses for leaving. Life has no if, only consequences and results.
2、不聞不問不一定是忘記了,但一定是疏遠了,彼此沉默太久就連主動都需要勇氣。
Do not ask is not necessarily forgotten, but must be estranged, each other is silent for too long, even take the initiative to take the courage.
3、發(fā)怒,是用別人錯誤懲罰自己;煩惱,是用自己的過失折磨自己;后悔,是用無奈的往事摧殘自己;憂慮,是用虛擬的風險驚嚇自己。
Anger means punishing yourself with others' mistakes, tormenting yourself with your own mistakes, ruining yourself with helpless past events, and worrying with virtual risks.
4、一個人想要幸福,就不能太聰明,也不能太傻,太聰明了讓人防備,太傻了讓人擺弄,難得糊涂,這種介于聰明與傻之間的狀態(tài)叫做智慧。
If a person wants to be happy, he can't be too clever or too stupid. If he is too smart, he can be defensive. If he is too stupid, he can be fooled. This state between intelligence and stupidity is called wisdom.
5、很多人不是孤僻,而是有原則有選擇地社交。和喜歡的人千言萬語,和其他的人一字不提。
Many people are not isolated, but socialize with principle and choice. And like the person thousands of words, and other people do not mention a word.
6、忽冷忽熱最折磨人,反反復復最傷人。過度的熱情會把被愛的人寵壞,忽冷忽熱的回復會把最愛你的推開。
Sometimes cold and hot is the most tormenting, and repeated is the most hurtful. Excessive enthusiasm will spoil the one you love, and the reply will push away the one who loves you most.
7、有些事,想多了頭疼,想通了心疼。所以,想不開就別想,得不到就別要,干嘛要委屈自己。放下包袱,忘卻一切煩惱,開心度過每一天。
Some things, think more headache, think through heartache. So, if you can't think about it, don't want it if you can't get it. Why should you aggrieve yourself. Put down the burden, forget all the troubles, and spend every day happily.
8、你多學一樣本事,就少說一句求人的話。我始終相信一句話:只有自己足夠強大,才不會被別人踐踏。
If you learn more than one skill, you will say less about asking for help. I always believe that only when I am strong enough, I will not be trampled on by others.
9、人做得越絕,你反而越容易走得出去。所以很多時候,你應該感激那些毫不顧及你的人。哀莫大于心不死,幸莫過于死徹底。
The better you do, the easier it will be for you to get out. So a lot of times, you should be grateful to those who don't care about you. No sorrow is greater than the heart does not die, but happiness is nothing more than death.
10、清晨想到的第一個人和夜晚想到的最后一個人,不是讓你幸福的人,就是讓你痛的人。
The first person you think of in the morning and the last person you think of at night are the people who make you happy or painful.
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