Whether you’ve decided its finally time to say I love you, or you’ve been together for awhile now and looking for ways to keep the romance fresh and exciting, we’ve put together 100 Ways to Say I Love You that you’ll be sure to enjoy.
無(wú)論是你覺得已經(jīng)終于到了表白“我愛你”的時(shí)候,還是你們已經(jīng)在一起了一段時(shí)間,正想辦法保持浪漫、新鮮感和激情,我們提供了100種說(shuō)我愛你的方式,相信你會(huì)喜歡。
1. With Kisses: Nothing says I love you like a kiss! Kiss them when you say hello, when you say goodbye, in the middle of the day for no reason at all. You can kiss them on the lips, on the cheek, on the forehead…it’s up to you where!
2. With Hugs: It’s true, most partners do not give each other enough hugs. So the next time you feel like telling your partner you love them, give them a giant bear hug.
3. With a Back rub: I’ve never met anyone who would refuse a backrub – another great way to say I love you without words!
1.吻:沒有什么比一個(gè)吻更能表達(dá)我愛你了!當(dāng)你們見面問好的時(shí)候吻她(原文為什么總在這種地方用them?受不了了……另,本著“愛情中應(yīng)該男性主動(dòng)”的傳統(tǒng)觀念,此類地方統(tǒng)一用“她”了),告別說(shuō)再見的時(shí)候吻她,一天中間任何時(shí)候不需要任何理由,吻她!你可以親吻她的嘴唇、臉頰、額頭……任何地方,由你決定!
2.擁抱:這是真的:大多數(shù)的愛人之間都缺乏足夠的擁抱。所以,下一次你想告訴你的伴侶你愛她的時(shí)候,給他一個(gè)結(jié)實(shí)的擁抱吧!
3.撫背:我還沒聽說(shuō)過那個(gè)人拒絕被撫摸后背(或者譯為拍脊梁)的呢——這也是一個(gè)無(wú)聲的表達(dá)我愛你的好方法。
4. In a Poem: Whether you decide to write a haiku (see these haiku examples from one of my favorite haiku writers) or write another style on your own, a poem is a great way to express how you feel about someone.
4.詩(shī):不管你打算寫俳句還是其他什么屬于你自己的格式,詩(shī)歌永遠(yuǎn)都是表達(dá)對(duì)一個(gè)人的感情的好方法。
5. In a Journal: Keeping a journal is easy. All you need is a notebook and a pen and write your feelings about the person. Unlike most journals though, this is one to share with your partner!
5.日記:堅(jiān)持寫日記并不難,你只需要一個(gè)本子和一支筆記錄下你對(duì)那個(gè)人的感覺就好。跟一般的日記不同的是,這本日記要和愛人分享。
6. On a T-shirt: You can make your own t-shirt using t-shirt iron on transfer paper or head over to a site like Spreadshirt.com and design your own Custom T-Shirts.
6.T恤:你可以用燙印紙自己做T恤,也可以到Spreadshirt.com之類的網(wǎng)站上去訂購(gòu)個(gè)性化T恤。
7. With Love Notes: Love notes are an easy simple way to say i love you to someone. Check out our post 55 Unique Places to Leave Love Notes for more inspiration.
7.紙條:愛情小紙條是一種簡(jiǎn)便易行的表達(dá)愛意的方法。看看我們以前的文章“55個(gè)放置愛情紙條的地方”吧,也許能給你更多靈感。
8. With Cheerios: If you have Cheerios or some other type of small food that would work also, why not write the words “i love you” with them on a table or in one of their favorite dishes?
8.麥圈:如果你吃麥圈,或者其他小零食也行,為什么不用它們?cè)谧雷由匣蛘咚钕矚g的菜里擺成“我愛你”的字樣呢?
9. By sharing the chores: This is my favorite way to say i love you – help your partner with the chores around the house, from washing dishes to vacuuming to doing the laundry, your partner will be sure to appreciate it!
9.分擔(dān)家務(wù):這是我最喜歡的表愛方法——跟你的愛人分享家務(wù),從洗碗到吸塵到洗衣服,你愛人一定會(huì)很高興的。
10. In a Picture: A picture is worth a thousand words, or so they say at least. Find a picture that shows how much you love them and share it with them. You can see that you don’t have to learn how to draw to make something that is meaningful.
10.圖畫:一張圖片能頂上一千句話,或者,也有人說(shuō),最少一千句。找一張能表明你有多么愛她的畫跟她一起欣賞吧!
11. In a collage: Collages are great ways to express yourself, so why not say I love you in a collage? All you will need is one piece of paper and magazine cut outs of anything related to your partner and relationship. Glue them all together onto the sheet of paper and you’ll have a great collage to show how much you love him or her!
11.拼貼:拼貼是表情達(dá)意的絕佳方法,為什么不用來(lái)說(shuō)愛你呢?你只需要一張紙還有從雜志上剪下來(lái)所有只要能代表你的心上人或者你們之間的關(guān)系的東西,把它們?nèi)假N到紙上你就擁有一個(gè)可以告訴她你有多愛她的絕佳的拼貼了!
12. With Flowers: There’s never a bad time to share flowers! They are always a nice welcome surprise. If you really want to make a statement, give him or her something unique and original instead of the usual roses.
12.鮮花:沒有哪個(gè)時(shí)候不適合送花的!它們永遠(yuǎn)是深受歡迎的驚喜。如果你確實(shí)想搞點(diǎn)創(chuàng)意,就別送平常的玫瑰,換點(diǎn)特別的、獨(dú)創(chuàng)性的花吧!
13. With Something Sweet: If your partner likes sweets or cookies, surprising them with something is always a guaranteed way to say that you love them. You could get personalized candy, bake cupcakes, or whatever it is you think they’ll like.
13.甜品:如果你的愛人喜歡吃甜點(diǎn)或者曲奇餅,用這些東西給她一個(gè)驚喜是表達(dá)你愛她的一種萬(wàn)無(wú)一失的方法。你可以買些個(gè)性化的糖果,或者烤一個(gè)紙杯蛋糕,或者其它任何你覺得她會(huì)喜歡的東西都行。
14. Watch the kids for them: If you are married and have kids, there’s nothing better than telling your partner you’ll watch the kids for the next hour, why don’t they go relax? Or, surprise your partner with a babysitter for a few hours while the two of you go out and do something fun together.
14.看孩子:如果你們已經(jīng)結(jié)婚并且有了孩子,在沒有什么比這句話更能表達(dá)我愛你了:下一個(gè)小時(shí)我看孩子,你去歇著吧。
15. By Cooking Dinner: Making a nice dinner for them is another way to show you care and are thinking about them, especially if they are too tired to cook or it is one of their favorite dishes. Can’t cook? You can always order take-out!
15.做飯:做一頓豐盛的飯餐是另一種表達(dá)你關(guān)心她體貼她的方法,特別是在她累的不想做飯的時(shí)候或者是做她最喜歡吃的菜。不會(huì)做飯?叫外賣總會(huì)吧!
16. Etched in Glass: It’s not hard to etch something in glass with a stencil and glass etching cream. You’ll be surprised how easy it is, and they’ll be surprised at your creativity!
16.玻璃刻畫:在玻璃上刻?hào)|西并不難,用模子和玻璃蝕刻乳就能做到。試一試,你肯定會(huì)驚喜原來(lái)它這么容易,而你的她肯定會(huì)驚喜原來(lái)你這么有創(chuàng)意!
17. With a Special Song Mix: Burn a few of your favorite love songs or songs to a CD that have a special meaning to you and your partner. Need ideas on how to label a CD? You can write on it with marker, or print a special label out of your computer. You can even give it a special cover too!
17.歌曲串燒:把你最喜歡的愛情歌曲刻進(jìn)一張對(duì)你和你的愛人有特殊意義的CD里吧。想知道怎樣包裝CD嗎?你可以用彩筆寫字、用電腦印一個(gè)特別的標(biāo)識(shí),甚至做一個(gè)別開生面的CD套。
18. Have Someone Else Tell Them: Could you imagine the look on your partner’s face if your best friend or mother sat down and told them how much you love them? It’d definitely be a surprise and hopefully they’ll be glad to hear that you’ve told someone else how much you love them too!
18.借他人之口:你能想象到當(dāng)你最好的朋友或者你媽媽坐在你心愛的人面前告訴她你有多愛她時(shí)她會(huì)有什么表情嗎?這絕對(duì)會(huì)是一個(gè)驚喜,而且她應(yīng)該也很高興知道你已經(jīng)把對(duì)她的愛告訴別人了。
19. Say it in Another Language: Why not try telling him or her you love them in another language? There are many online translators available to help you convert anything into a different language. Te amo for example means I love you in Spanish.
19.借他國(guó)之言:為什么不試試用外語(yǔ)告訴她你的愛呢?網(wǎng)上有很多翻譯工具,可以幫你把任何東西翻譯成另一種語(yǔ)言。比如說(shuō),西班牙語(yǔ)的我愛你就是“Te amo”。
20. Say Thanks: Showing your appreciation to your partner for all that they do is a great way to show your care.
20.說(shuō)謝謝:表現(xiàn)出你對(duì)于你的愛人為你做的一切很感激,是一種很好的表達(dá)關(guān)愛地方法。
21. From the Top of a Mountain: Go the highest point you can find around your house and scream from the top of your lungs “I love this girl!” (or guy!)
21.在山頂:登上你家附近的最高點(diǎn),用你最大的聲音發(fā)自肺腑的喊:我愛這個(gè)女孩!
22. With the Lawn Mower: You can write the words I love you with your lawn mowers in your yard if you let the grass grow high enough for a few weeks.
22.用割草機(jī):等幾個(gè)星期,讓你的草長(zhǎng)到足夠的高度,然后你就可以用割草機(jī)在你的后院里寫出“我愛你”了。
23. In a Bottle: Write Your Partner a message in a bottle for them to find and open.
23.瓶子:把你要對(duì)愛人說(shuō)的話寫張字條裝在瓶子里,等她找到、打開……
24. With Your Pets: Have a dog or cat? You can attach a message around their collar for your partner to find.
24.利用寵物:家里養(yǎng)著只小貓或小狗嗎?你可以把字條拴在她的項(xiàng)圈上,等你的愛人發(fā)現(xiàn)。
25. With a Text Message: Text messages only take a few minutes to send, so if you don’t text your partner often, why not send them a text message?
25.短信:發(fā)個(gè)短信只需要短短幾秒鐘,如果你不常給你的愛人發(fā)短信,為什么不試一下呢?
26. In a crowd: If you’re in a busy park or street in the city, there’s no shame in proclaiming your love to your partner in front of others.
26.在人群中:如果你們正在擁擠的公園或者城市的大街上,請(qǐng)別害羞,在大庭廣眾之下宣布你愛她吧。
27. Say it on a Screensaver: Assuming your partner won’t mind, you can change their computer desktop background or put a special screen saver on his or her computer to say i love you for you.
27.屏幕保護(hù):如果你的愛人不介意的話,你可以改一下她的電腦桌面或者做一個(gè)特別的屏幕保護(hù)程序來(lái)替你說(shuō)“我愛你”。
28. Kidnap Them: If you know your partner has nothing to do on a certain day, why not kidnap them and surprise them with a special getaway? You can go on a romantic picnic or escape to a nearby park or other local attraction.
28.“綁架”:如果你知道你的愛人某一天沒有事,為什么不“綁架”她一下,用特殊的出游給她一個(gè)驚喜呢?你們可以來(lái)個(gè)浪漫野餐,或者遠(yuǎn)離喧鬧躲到附近的公園或者其他好地方。
29. Warm their car up for them: If chilly weather makes your car parked outside too cold, you could go out there and brave the cold to start the car for them (and if it snowed, even clear it off for them!) Don’t like braving the cold? Maybe a remote starter kit would be a nice surprise?
29.發(fā)動(dòng)汽車:如果滴水成冰的天氣讓你們停在戶外的汽車太冷了,你可以出去勇敢的面對(duì)嚴(yán)寒幫她發(fā)動(dòng)汽車(如果是下雪了,順便幫她把車上的雪清理掉?。┎幌朊鎸?duì)嚴(yán)寒?那就買個(gè)遙控啟動(dòng)儀做驚喜吧!
30. While you’re watching a Movie Together: Next time you’re snuggling up to a romantic movie you can whisper it in their ear halfway through or during a romantic scene.
30.一起看電影時(shí):下一次,當(dāng)你們依偎在一起看愛情片時(shí),你可以在演到某個(gè)浪漫的場(chǎng)景時(shí)悄悄在她耳邊說(shuō)……
31. Bring Them Coffee: Anytime you bring your partner one of their favorite drinks it reminds them how much you care.
31.端杯咖啡(中國(guó)化一點(diǎn)我是不是該譯成端茶倒水?):不管什么時(shí)候,給她端上一杯她最喜歡的飲料都能提醒她你有多在乎她。
32. By Listening to Them: Listening to your partner without interrupting, getting distracted, or critcizing them is a great way to say i love you to someone.
32.傾聽:認(rèn)真聽你的愛人說(shuō)話,不要打斷、不要走神、不要反駁,這是對(duì)一個(gè)人說(shuō)我愛你的絕佳方式。
33. With a Secret Phrase: The duck quacks at midnight…Creating a secret way to tell your partner you love them can be fun, especially since no one else will know what you’re talking about but each other. Be creative!
33.暗號(hào):鴨子在半夜嘎嘎叫……想一個(gè)秘密的方法來(lái)告訴你的愛人你有多愛她是一件有趣的事情,特別是除了你倆沒人知道你們?cè)谡f(shuō)什么的時(shí)候。發(fā)揮想象力吧!
34. In a cake: Think of those old prison movies when they would bake a cake with something in it…you could do this or write a special message in icing on the top.
34 蛋糕:想想在那些以前的表現(xiàn)監(jiān)獄生活的電影里面,人們常常把一些東西加載蛋糕里相互傳遞……你也可以這么辦,或者用糖霜在蛋糕上面寫字也行。
35. With an Interpretive Dance: Okay, so maybe interpretive dancing isn’t for you…but you could ask them to dance with you, even if there is no music playing or if you are standing in the living room.
35.交誼舞:嗯,可能你并不擅長(zhǎng)交誼舞,但這并不妨礙你讓你的愛人陪你跳,沒有音樂也不要緊,就在你家客廳里也不要緊。
36. With Tools: Did you notice your honey lost or broke his diamond drill bit? Maybe they just need a tool they don’t have. Why not get them a new one next time you are out at the store?
36.工具:你的愛人的金剛石鉆頭丟了或者壞了,你發(fā)現(xiàn)了嗎?或許他正需要一件工具卻沒有呢,下次你路過商店的時(shí)候給他買件新的吧!(這個(gè)比較適合女對(duì)男哈,我就用“他”啦~~)
37. In flames: I don’t really know how to do this safely, but if you can figure it out, why not write them a message in flames? (I hold no responsibility if you attempt this. Please check with your fire department before proceeding!)
37.火焰:我還不知道怎樣才能安全的做到,不過如果你能想到辦法,為什么不用火焰給她寫一句話呢?(你要試出什么問題來(lái)我可不負(fù)責(zé)啊……最好使用前先檢查一下火災(zāi)保險(xiǎn)上好了沒……)
38. On a Tattoo: Just remember: Tattoos are forever. You could also make your own temporary tattoo. Sharpie markers, body paints, and pens work well for writing on your skin too. (Just make sure they’re non-toxic and you’re not allergic to it!)
38.文身:記住:文身是永久的。你也可以自己做出些暫時(shí)的文身,用馬克筆、體繪顏料或者鋼筆在身上寫字也挺好的。(務(wù)必確保你用的東西沒有毒,而且不會(huì)讓你過敏)
39. Say it in Sand: There’s nothing more romantic at the beach than to write your names in hearts in the sand or the words I love you. No beach nearby? You could always fill up a kiddie pool with sand and do the same.
39.寫在沙灘上:沒有什么比在沙灘上畫個(gè)心形里面寫上你們的名字或者“我愛你”更浪漫的事了。你家附近沒有沙灘嗎?你總能找到孩子玩的沙坑吧?
40. On a puzzle: Have a puzzle loving partner? Write a special message on the back of a puzzle or mail them one piece of a puzzle at a time.
40.拼圖:你的愛人是個(gè)拼圖迷嗎?在拼圖的背面寫上你特別的話,或者把拼圖拆開每次寄給她一塊。
41. On a Balloon: You can either choose to blow up a balloon and write a message for them to discover when they blow it up or hand them one where you’ve stuffed a special message inside it.
41.氣球:你可以把氣球吹開,把要說(shuō)的話寫在氣球上然后再放掉氣,等她再吹開的時(shí)候就會(huì)發(fā)現(xiàn)了;或者把紙條塞進(jìn)氣球里送給她。
42. In a Song: You don’t need to learn guitar to write and sing a song (though it could help!) It’s the thought that counts, so don’t worry about what your song sounds like. There’s plenty of bad music in myspace and youtube (myself included actually) – so there’s no need to be self conscious!
42.歌曲:你也不必非得學(xué)會(huì)彈吉他才能自己創(chuàng)作一首歌唱給她(當(dāng)然,會(huì)肯定更好?。┎贿^重要的是你有這個(gè)想法,大可不必?fù)?dān)心你的歌聽起來(lái)怎么樣,myspace和youtube網(wǎng)站上有好多糟糕的原創(chuàng)歌曲呢(其實(shí)也有我的)——所以,沒必要自我懷疑啦。
43. In a video: Who doesn’t love videos? You can use your web cam or get a video camera to make a video pledging your love for him or her. No video camera? You could always prepare a slide show of pictures set to some of your favorite music.
43.視頻:誰(shuí)不喜歡看視頻呢?你可以用你的攝像頭或者攝像機(jī)拍一段視頻,在其中信誓旦旦地表達(dá)你愛他/她。沒有攝像機(jī)嗎?做一組幻燈片或者圖片也行啊,用你最喜歡的歌做背景音樂吧。
44. Say I love you with a quote: Lost for words? Let somebody else say it better! Check out our Romantic Movie Quotes and Quotes on Kissing for some inspiration.
44.引言:想不出浪漫的語(yǔ)句了嗎?看看別人是怎么說(shuō)的吧!可以看看我們以前的文章《愛情電影經(jīng)典語(yǔ)錄》和《與親吻有關(guān)的語(yǔ)錄》來(lái)啟發(fā)靈感。
45. Make a Hanging Mobile: You can hang your love for someone with a romantic hanging mobile! Get Directions and a Free Printout Here
45.懸掛飾物:你可以把你對(duì)某人的愛情掛在一個(gè)浪漫的吊飾上!這個(gè)網(wǎng)站可以給你指導(dǎo)還能免費(fèi)印制。(原文此處為網(wǎng)頁(yè)鏈接)
46.Mark Your Love on a Calendar: Does your partner rely on a calendar? Write in “I love you day” on a few of the days to make them extra special.
46.在日歷上標(biāo)出你的愛:你心愛的人每天看日歷嗎?在一些日子上標(biāo)出“我愛你日”讓它們變得格外與眾不同吧。
47. Make a List: Chances are you have more than one reason to say I love you, so why not make a list of ways you love the person and give it to him or her?
47.列個(gè)清單:你很可能有不止一個(gè)理由來(lái)說(shuō)“我愛你”,為什么不把所有你愛她的理由列一個(gè)清單送給她呢?
48. Give Them a Tree of Love: You can get artificial miniature trees and attach small gifts or reasons you love the person or anything else romantic you want to. I once was given a white Christmas tree as a present with money attached to it – one of the best presents ever!
48.送一顆愛情樹:你可以買一棵小的模型樹,在上面掛上一些小禮物和你愛她的原因還有其他你認(rèn)為浪漫的東西。我曾經(jīng)收到一棵白色的圣誕樹,上面掛著錢——這是我收到的最好的禮物之一了。
49. Throw a Party: You can hold a special party for your love to celebrate how much you love them. Invite friends and family, or you can have a romantic party just the two of you. Don’t forget the streamers and maybe a giant “I Love You” banner.
49.辦一個(gè)派對(duì):你可以為你愛的人舉辦一場(chǎng)特殊的聚會(huì)來(lái)慶祝你多么愛她。你可以邀請(qǐng)你們的朋友和親人,也可以來(lái)個(gè)浪漫的兩人聚會(huì)。別忘了裝飾彩帶,還可以用上一個(gè)大大的“I Love You”橫幅。
50. Write Your Love Story: A love story can be as simple or as complex as you want it to be. Our post on Writing Your Love Story is full of ideas.
50.創(chuàng)造自己的愛情故事:你的愛情故事要多簡(jiǎn)單或者多復(fù)雜全由你自己說(shuō)了算。我們過去的文章“寫作你自己的愛情故事”提供了很多相關(guān)的構(gòu)思。
51. Show Interest in Their Hobbies: Maybe they like something that bores you. But showing a genuine interest in their hobbies or activities is a great way for you to connect more and show that you love them.
51.對(duì)她的愛好表示興趣:也許有些她喜歡的東西讓你覺得很無(wú)聊,但是對(duì)她的愛好顯示出真正的興趣是個(gè)很好的與她增進(jìn)聯(lián)系并表示你愛她的方法。
52. Give Them a Compliment: Telling your partner he or she looks beautiful or cute (or whatever terms that are appropriate for your relationship) is an easy additional way to say I love you. You could also compliment them on something like “Honey, you did a great job on dinner tonight” or “Wow! That bathroom you painted looks awesome!”
52.贊揚(yáng)她:告訴你的愛人她長(zhǎng)得很漂亮或者很可愛(或者其它你覺得根據(jù)你們的關(guān)系可以用的詞)是個(gè)很簡(jiǎn)單的說(shuō)我愛你的方式。你也可以表?yè)P(yáng)她說(shuō):“寶貝,你今晚的晚餐做得太好了”或者“哇哦!你油漆的盥洗室看起來(lái)帥呆了!”
53. Make a Sign: You can wear it sandwich board style or hang a banner across the door to greet them when they get home. Maybe a sign on their car or bedroom door. Wherever you put the sign doesn’t matter – what matters is that it shows your partner you were thinking of them!
53.做一個(gè)標(biāo)識(shí)牌:你可以把它做成夾板廣告的樣子或者在門口掛一條橫幅來(lái)歡迎她回家。亦可以做個(gè)標(biāo)牌放在她的車上或者臥室門上。牌子到底掛在哪兒并不重要-重要的是它能告訴你的愛人你心里想著她。
54. Send Them Snail Mail: Most people when they open their mailbox are bombarded by bills and junk mail. Wouldn’t it be nice to get a romantic letter instead?
54.寄信:大多數(shù)人打開信箱的時(shí)候都只能收到賬單和垃圾郵件的狂轟亂炸。如果能是一封浪漫的來(lái)信,豈不是感覺很棒?
55. Send an E-Card: If snail mail is too slow for you, you can send romantic e-cards instantly. With hundreds of romantic ecards out there, you’re sure to find one that’s just the right way to say I love you.
55.電子賀卡:如果你覺得寄信太慢了,你可以發(fā)送一封浪漫的電子賀卡來(lái)代替。網(wǎng)上有那么多浪漫的賀卡可選,你肯定能找到最適合你用來(lái)表達(dá)愛意的那一張!
56. Say it Upside Down: If you’re athletically inclined, take your partner to a park and hang upside down from the monkey bars and say “Hey! I love you even when I’m upside down!”
56.倒立著說(shuō):如果你有點(diǎn)運(yùn)動(dòng)細(xì)胞,你可以帶你的愛人到公園里去,在云梯上來(lái)個(gè)頭朝下然后告訴她:你看,即使我頭朝下了我也依然愛你的!
57. Say it The cheesiest Way You Know: Take 1 block of cheese (can be their favorite kind or whatever you’ve got – all that matters is that it is cheese) and then attach a note which says “This is the cheesiest way I can think of to say I love you!”
57.最“廉價(jià)”的方法:取一塊乳酪(她最喜歡的味道或者隨便什么--只要是奶酪就行),附上一張紙條:“這是我想到的最廉價(jià)的說(shuō)我愛你的方法”。
(注:英語(yǔ)中cheesiest意為廉價(jià)的,不值錢的,此處采用雙關(guān)和幽默)
58. Just Saying Hi: A quick phone call to your partner when you are away is a great way to just say hi and ask them how their day is going.
58.簡(jiǎn)單的問候:當(dāng)你不在她身邊的時(shí)候,記得給她打個(gè)電話,就簡(jiǎn)單的問候一句,問問她今天過得怎么樣。
59. Publicly Humiliation: Nothing says I love you like some good old fashioned public humiliation. Have someone announce it over a loud speaker at an office or store, serenade them while you eat dinner at a restaurant (even if it is McDonald’s), put it on a billboard, air a tv commercial. (okay, so maybe we’re getting a little overboard here) – but you get the point.
59.當(dāng)眾“羞辱”:老掉牙的當(dāng)眾讓她害羞其實(shí)是一種無(wú)可比擬的示愛方式。你可以在辦公室或者商店的大喇叭里大聲播放通知,在共進(jìn)晚餐時(shí)給她點(diǎn)一首樂曲(即使是在麥當(dāng)勞也行),把示愛的話寫在廣告牌上,或者在廣播或電視里做個(gè)廣告,(好吧,可能說(shuō)的有點(diǎn)過了),不過你明白我的意思了吧!
60. Hide it in a Book: Find a book or magazine you know your partner will read and write or tape a note that tells them you’re thinking of them. Alternatively you could underline a section and say something romantic based on what the book is about, depending on the book of course. If it’s intro to accounting for example, you could write “all the math i need to know is me + u = love”.
60.藏在書里:找一本你確定你的愛人肯定會(huì)看的書或者雜志,在里面寫張紙條或貼張便簽告訴她你在想她。你也可以劃出一些句子或者在頁(yè)邊寫些浪漫的話,當(dāng)然,要根據(jù)這本書的內(nèi)容而定。比如說(shuō)這是本介紹會(huì)計(jì)學(xué)的書,你可以寫上:關(guān)于數(shù)學(xué),所有我所需要知道的只有“我+你=愛情”。
61. Let Them Teach You Something: It’s always a huge ego boost when you ask your partner to teach you how to do something. It doesn’t matter what it is, as long as its something you can show genuine interest in learning.
61.讓她教你點(diǎn)什么:當(dāng)你要求你的愛人教你如何去做某件事時(shí),一定會(huì)使她的虛榮心得到極大地滿足。是什么事情都無(wú)所謂,只要是你表現(xiàn)出真誠(chéng)的興趣想去學(xué)的就可以。
62. Give Them a Lucky Charm: Give your partner something lucky to carry with them and remind them of you. It could be something to put in their wallet or something to put on their keychain.
62.送她一個(gè)幸運(yùn)物:送你的愛人一件幸運(yùn)物讓她隨身攜帶并在看到的時(shí)候就想起你??梢允鼓芊旁阱X包里或者掛在鑰匙鏈上的小東西。
63. Give Them Undivided Attention: Tell your partner they will get your undivided attention for 1 hour. They can talk to you about anything or do anything they want with you.
63.全神貫注:告訴你的愛人,在接下來(lái)的一個(gè)小時(shí)里,你除了她什么別的事都不考慮。她想和你說(shuō)什么都行,也可以和你一起去做任何她想做的事。
64. Tuck Them In at Night: It’s always comforting when somebody pulls the blankets up over you and kisses you good night.
64.晚上幫她蓋好被子:臨睡前幫她蓋上被子,親吻她說(shuō)晚安永遠(yuǎn)是一件很能撫慰人的事情。
65. Trust Your Partner and Be Trustworthy: Being able to trust your partner is very important. Give your partner trust, and they will likely return that trust to you. Once their trust is earned, don’t ever screw it up.
65.信任你的愛人,自己也要值得信任:能夠信任你愛的人是非常重要的,你信任她,她也更可能會(huì)同樣信任你。一旦你已經(jīng)得到了她的信任,千萬(wàn)別再讓她失望。
66. Remember the Good Times: Make a list of your favorite memories with your partner and share them with him or her.
66.回憶美好的時(shí)光:把你們?cè)谝黄鹱羁鞓返挠洃浟谐汕鍐尾⒑蛺廴朔窒怼?br>
67. Hold Hands: Hand holding is one of the most intimate ways to connect with one another. Take any chance you have to hold his or her hand!
67.牽手:牽手是最親密的聯(lián)絡(luò)感情的方法之一。抓住所有的機(jī)會(huì)握住她的手吧!
68. Have a Hooky Day: Playing hooky means all your responsibilities for the day get tossed out the window. You can call/request off work or skip whatever you usually do on most days. Instead do something fun together, even if it just means laying in bed together all day.
68.逃學(xué)日:逃學(xué)游戲就是說(shuō)在這一天,你們所有的責(zé)任都被扔到窗外去。你們可以請(qǐng)假不去工作,曠掉所有你平日里每天要做的事,而一起去做一些好玩的事情,甚至就一起在床上躺一整天也行。
69. Take a Romantic Bubble Bath: What could be better than you and your partner in a hot tub surrounded with bubbles?
69.浪漫的泡泡?。合胂肽愫湍愕膼廴嗽跍嘏脑「桌锉慌菖莅鼑母杏X,你還能想到更好的時(shí)刻嗎?
70. Take Photos of Each Other: You can make this sexy or silly – but taking pictures of each other is a great way to spend time having fun together and telling each other that you love each other.
70.互相拍照:可以拍性感照片,也可以拍傻乎乎的樣子——不管怎樣,互相拍照是兩人一起快樂并表達(dá)愛意的好方法。
71. Share Ice Cream Out of One Bowl: Sharing ice cream is a lost art that many people have never discovered. Get a bowl or a pint of your favorite kind and dig in with two spoons.
71.分吃同一杯冰激凌:很多人都不知道,分吃冰激凌其實(shí)是一門藝術(shù)。買一杯或者一品脫你們最喜歡的口味,用兩把勺子一起吃光它。
72. Make an “About Me” Report: Many times we feel like our partners don’t really know us. You can impress your partner if you can answer things like their favorite colors, foods, happiest memories, biggest accomplishments, recent news, etc. etc.
72.做個(gè)自我匯報(bào):很多時(shí)候我們會(huì)覺得愛人并不真正了解自己。如果你能回答她的問題,比如她最喜歡的顏色、食物,最快樂的記憶,最大的成功,最新的新聞等等,一定會(huì)令她印象深刻的。
73. Anticipate Their Moves: When you are with someone for a long time, you know what they will want or need without them even asking. Maybe its as simple as passing them the pepper when they’re eating Mac & Cheese or turning on their favorite TV show without them asking it.
73.猜測(cè)她的舉動(dòng):當(dāng)你和她在一起較長(zhǎng)時(shí)間之后,你應(yīng)該不需要她開口就知道她想要或者需要什么。可能就簡(jiǎn)單到當(dāng)她吃Mac&cheese的時(shí)候遞給她胡椒粉或者不用她開口就幫她換到她最喜歡的電視節(jié)目。
74. Get Healthy: The healthier you are, the longer you will be around to love someone! You can lose weight for free, stop a bad habit such as quit drinking, or practice safety habits. Encourage your partner to do the same. (Just don’t tell him or her that he or she is fat! That won’t go over too well!)
74.保持健康:你越健康,就有越長(zhǎng)的時(shí)間可以在她身邊愛她!你可以減減肥,戒掉一個(gè)壞習(xí)慣(比如戒酒),或者換一個(gè)更安全的愛好。鼓勵(lì)你愛的人也這樣做。(不過別對(duì)她說(shuō)她很胖,那不會(huì)有好效果的?。?br>
75. Love Their Family: In-Laws are notoriously difficult to get along with. But if you show respect to their family and traditions, it can say a lot about how much you love a person!
75.愛她的家人:岳父岳母或者公公婆婆是眾所周知的不好相處。不過如果你能對(duì)她的家人和他們的習(xí)慣表示尊重,會(huì)很能說(shuō)明你有多么愛她!
76. Make Breakfast or Go on a Breakfast Date: Breakfast is the most important meal of the day – and its also the most likely to be skipped or rushed! Making breakfast or going out for a cup of coffee and a muffin can be a special way to show someone you want to take out time in your busy day to be with them.
76.為她做早餐或相約一起出去吃:早餐時(shí)一天中最重要的一頓——也是最容易被跳過不吃或者胡亂應(yīng)付的一頓。給她做頓早餐或者一起出去喝杯咖啡吃點(diǎn)松餅不失為一種特別的方法表示你愿意在繁忙的一天中抽出一段時(shí)間和她在一起。
77. Draw a Picture: It doesn’t matter how artistic you are, anyone can draw a simple picture to say how much you love someone – even if it is just with stick figures and hearts and stars!
77.畫一副畫:無(wú)論你有沒有藝術(shù)細(xì)胞,每個(gè)人都能畫一幅簡(jiǎn)單的圖畫來(lái)表達(dá)你有多愛那個(gè)人——甚至只畫線條小人、愛心和星星也行!
78. Flirt Vivaciously: Flirting doesn’t have to be reserved for just when you first meet. Go ahead and act like he or she doesn’t know you like him or her yet.
78.活潑地調(diào)情:調(diào)情不只是在你們第一次見面時(shí)的專用。你可以持續(xù)用它,假裝好像她還不知道你喜歡她一樣。
79. Define what love means to you: Sometimes the word love is used so loosely it loses its meaning. Explain what love means to you to your partner – and why you’re so glad you’ve found it with them.
79.定義愛情對(duì)你意味著什么:有時(shí)候,“愛”這個(gè)詞被用的太多太濫了,以至于甚至失去了它的價(jià)值。告訴你的愛人愛對(duì)你來(lái)說(shuō)意味著什么——并且告訴她為什么你這樣高興能和她一起找到愛情。
80. Write it in a Cryptic Message: Write a message of love using a secret code. Give them the key and let them decipher the message. (You could also write is backwards and tell them to hold it up in front of a mirror)
80.使用密碼:把你要說(shuō)的話用密碼寫出來(lái),告訴她方法讓她去破譯。(你也可以反著寫字,然后告訴她站在鏡子前面去看)。
81. Practice Random Acts of Kindness: Showing you love someone is more important than saying I love you, which is why practicing random acts of kindness is important. Hold doors, pull out chairs, offer an umbrella when its raining, etc.
81.無(wú)意中的舉手之勞:在實(shí)際行動(dòng)中表現(xiàn)出愛比說(shuō)“我愛你”更重要,所以學(xué)會(huì)在不經(jīng)意間做出舉手之勞是很重要的。幫她開門,拉出椅子,在下雨時(shí)撐傘,等等,都屬于此類。
82. Show Your Vulnerable Side: Showing your vulnerable side to your partner means that you completely trust them and are comfortable with them. So go ahead and tell them a secret, your deepest feelings, or anything they can use against you as blackmail.
82.不要隱藏你的脆弱:在你愛的人面前表現(xiàn)出脆弱的一面說(shuō)明你完全信任她并且很愿意和她在一起。所以,不要再猶豫了,告訴她你的秘密,你內(nèi)心深處的感覺,或者其它什么她可以用了勒索你的事情。
83. Love Their Faults: Nobody is perfect and everybody makes mistakes. If you can make light of their short comings and show you love them even if they can’t spell or be on time or whatever else it is that they’re really bad at, it means you love them for all of them – not just the good stuff.
83.愛她的缺點(diǎn):沒有人是完美的,誰(shuí)都會(huì)犯錯(cuò)誤。如果你能不在乎她的缺點(diǎn),表現(xiàn)出即使她不會(huì)拼寫,常常遲到或者不擅長(zhǎng)什么這個(gè)那個(gè)你也依然愛她,這就能證明你是愛她的全部,而不只是優(yōu)點(diǎn)。
84. Tell Them How Happy You Are: Telling your partner how happy you are will make them feel like they are partly responsible for that, even though we all know happiness shouldn’t be dependent on someone else.
84.告訴她你很高興:告訴你愛的人你很快樂會(huì)讓她覺得她是原因之一,盡管我們都知道快樂是不依賴于別人的。
85. Clean Up After Yourself: Nobody likes the role of the “maid” – if you spill something on the floor, clean it up! Put your towels away, the dishes away, etc. etc. If you don’t act like a slob, your partner will never resent you.
85.收拾好你的攤子:沒有人喜歡做“女傭”——如果你把什么東西灑在地板上了,自己把它打掃干凈。把你打毛巾掛好,盤子放回廚房,等等等等。如果你不表現(xiàn)得像個(gè)懶蟲,你的愛人就不會(huì)對(duì)你生氣了。
86. Give Them the Last One: If you and your partner both enjoy something and there’s only one left, let them have it. There’s a good chance they’ll share it with you anyway, but even if they don’t they’ll appreciate your selflessness.
86.把最后一個(gè)留給她:如果你和你的愛人都喜歡某樣?xùn)|西,而現(xiàn)在只剩下一個(gè)了,留給她吧。不管怎么說(shuō),她還是很有可能和你分享的,即使她沒有,她也一定很感激你的無(wú)私。
87. Put Their Needs Ahead of Your Own: When you put your partner’s needs ahead of your own (and they do the same) you both selflessly say to one another that you love each other and look out for one another.
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88. Know When to Apologize: Saying you’re sorry can go a long way, even if you don’t necessarily think you did anything wrong or agree. Sometimes just saying you’re sorry is enough to make any problems blow over.
87.先考慮她,后考慮你自己:當(dāng)你把愛人的需求放在自己之前的時(shí)候(她也會(huì)這樣做的),你們表現(xiàn)出了無(wú)私的愛和對(duì)對(duì)方的關(guān)心。
88.知道何時(shí)該道歉:一句“對(duì)不起”可以有很大的作用,即使你并不認(rèn)為你做錯(cuò)了什么或者認(rèn)同她的說(shuō)法。有時(shí)候,只需要說(shuō)一句抱歉的話就足夠化解難題了。
89. Be Totally Goofy Together: Let your inner kid out and do something goofy. Have a pillow fight, jump on the bed, go sled riding. Whatever it is, it’ll be fun and show your partner that you love them enough to be completely goofy with them.
89.完全忘形:把你內(nèi)心的那個(gè)淘氣小孩釋放出來(lái),做點(diǎn)胡作非為的事。來(lái)一場(chǎng)枕頭大戰(zhàn),跳著上床或者去滑雪橇。不管是什么事請(qǐng),一定會(huì)很有趣并且讓你愛的人知道你那么愛她,跟她在一起可以完全忘形。
90. Show Up for a Surprise Visit: It always made my day anytime my now husband would show up unexpectedly at my apartment or at work. Make sure its okay if its a work visit (you don’t want them getting in trouble with the boss!) or not at a time when they’d be incredibly busy. (If he worked in a restaurant for example, you would not want to show up at dinner rush!)
90.突然出現(xiàn):我現(xiàn)在的丈夫以前常會(huì)在一天的任何時(shí)候突然出現(xiàn)在我的公寓或者單位。如果是去單位,要事先確定沒有問題(你不想讓她惹到她的老板吧!),而且不要在她特別忙的時(shí)候去。(比如你的他在餐館工作,就不要在晚餐時(shí)間去。)
91. Make a Scrapbook: Scrapbooks can be a fun way to remember good times or show how much you love somebody. You could also take all of your digital photos and turn them into a Photobook for you to keep and share for years to come.
91.剪貼簿:剪貼簿可以變成一種記錄快樂時(shí)光和你對(duì)她的愛的有意思的方法。你也可以把你們所有的電子照片洗出來(lái)變成相冊(cè),留著在以后的幾年中一起看。
92. Sing the ABC’s – Can you think of a reason you love your partner for every letter of the alphabet? A you’re adorable…B oh so Beautiful…You get the idea…
92.唱“字母歌”:你能為字母表上的每一個(gè)字母想出一個(gè)愛她的理由嗎?A-你很可愛(adorable),B-很漂亮(beautiful)……明白了嗎?
93. As Soon as You Wake Up: Waking up to someone saying “I Love You” is a lot better than “Hey! Get your butt out of bed the kids are late for school, I’m late for work, honey the toaster is on fire, etc. etc…”
93.早上醒來(lái)第一件事:醒來(lái)的第一句話說(shuō)“我愛你”比說(shuō)“快起來(lái)吧,孩子們上學(xué)要遲到了,我上班也快遲了,烤面包爐也熱了,快起吧快起吧。。。”要好多了。
94. Ask How You Can Help: Sometimes our partners don’t want to ask for help but would gladly accept it if offered. A simple “is there anything you need?” can be an enormous way to say I love you.
94.主動(dòng)提供幫助:有些時(shí)候,你的愛人可能不想開口要求幫助,但如果你主動(dòng)提出,她會(huì)很樂意接受的。簡(jiǎn)單的一句“需要我?guī)兔幔?#8221;是一個(gè)很好的表達(dá)我愛你的方法。
95. Put on a Puppet Show: If you’ve got stuffed animals laying around, pick them up and have them re-enact your love for one another.
95.木偶表演:如果你們身邊有毛絨動(dòng)物玩具,拿起它們用它們來(lái)再現(xiàn)你們之間的恩愛。
96. Cuddle: There is no such thing as too much cuddling. Snuggle in bed before saying goodnight, while you watch football on TV, or just on a lazy afternoon.
96.摟抱:相擁依偎這種事情永遠(yuǎn)不會(huì)嫌太多。你們可以在說(shuō)晚安之前在床上依偎在一起,或者當(dāng)你們一起看電視轉(zhuǎn)播的足球賽時(shí),或者就在隨便一個(gè)慵懶的下午。
97. Ask Their Advice: It’s a huge compliment and ego booster to your partner if you ask for their opinion or advice on something. Don’t make it too tricky (Does this outfit make me look fat?) – but something like “do you think I should get a blue rug or a green rug?” makes them feel involved and as if their opinion matters.
97.征求她的意見:征求他對(duì)某事的意見或建議對(duì)你的愛人來(lái)說(shuō)是一種很大的贊揚(yáng)并能使他自信心大增。問題別太難回答(比如說(shuō):我穿著件外套是不是顯得很胖?)——不過類似于“你覺得我應(yīng)該買個(gè)藍(lán)色的地毯還是綠色的?”這樣的問題會(huì)讓他覺得你把他當(dāng)自己人,而且他的意見很重要。
98. Give Some TLC: Everybody has bad days from time to time or will get sick at some point or another. Give them some extra TLC on those days – some chicken soup, a cup of tea or hot chocolate, whatever it is that they need to cheer up or feel better.
98.溫暖的關(guān)懷:每個(gè)人都可能有倒霉的日子或者生病的時(shí)候。在這些時(shí)候給予他們額外的溫暖關(guān)懷——做些雞湯,一杯熱茶或熱巧克力,或者其它什么能幫助他們快樂起來(lái)或者康復(fù)的東西。
99. Ask How They Are: It’s easy for partners to forget to ask each other how they are, even though they might ask complete strangers the same question out of habit. So before you start complaining or going into great detail about you, ask them “how was your day” or “how’s it going?” when you first see them.
99.問她最近可好:情侶之間很容易忘記互相問一句:你最近怎么樣?盡管我們常常習(xí)慣性的這樣問候完全陌生的人。所以,當(dāng)你剛見到她時(shí),在你開始發(fā)牢騷和絮叨你的事情之前,先問問對(duì)方“你今天可好?”或者“生活怎么樣?”。
100. Give it Unconditionally: Unconditional love is probably the best thing in the whole world when it comes to love. It means no one expects anything in return and you will continue to love somebody even if it’s not all wine and roses all the time.
100.無(wú)條件的愛:無(wú)條件的愛可能是全世界的愛情中最好的一種。它意味著你并不期望什么回報(bào),并且即使你們不能永遠(yuǎn)保持風(fēng)花雪月的浪漫你也依然一直愛她。
Phew! What a list! Now that you have heard my 100 ways to say I love you, why not share your ideas in the comments below?
呼!這單子可真長(zhǎng)!既然你已經(jīng)聽過我的100種說(shuō)愛你的方法了,為什么不在評(píng)論中和大家分享一下你的創(chuàng)意呢?
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