Here's how you get ahead of 99% of people in 6 to 12 months. Become brutally aware of two things. The first is what you don't want. The second is is where you will end up if you keep doing the same things in life. Observe the masses and see where mindless action leads. It's not pretty at all by any means. When you do this, when you observe the masses, sit with your thoughts, think them through, don't just close your mind off and take what you see on the surface and accept it as reality. That's not how this works. That closed minded, surface level living is what got you into this situation in the first place, you need to think deeper. It's easier to know what you don't want from experience and observation than it is to know what you want from imagination and just thinking and having all of these grand ideas for your future.以下教你如何在6到12個(gè)月內(nèi)領(lǐng)先99%的人。你要深刻認(rèn)清兩件事。第一是:你不想要什么。第二是:如果你繼續(xù)重復(fù)同樣的生活,你將會走向何方。觀察身邊的普羅大眾,看看盲目行動會帶來什么結(jié)果,絕不會帶來什么好結(jié)果。當(dāng)你觀察的時(shí)候,當(dāng)你觀察大多數(shù)人時(shí),要坐下來,靜下心,理清思緒。不要只是關(guān)上心門,只看表象,將所見之物當(dāng)做現(xiàn)實(shí),這不是解決問題的方式。思維封閉,生活淺薄,正是導(dǎo)致你陷入糟糕境地的元兇,你需要深度思考。相比僅僅憑想象和思考,以及通過對未來的各種宏大構(gòu)想,去知道自己想要什么,我們更容易從親身經(jīng)驗(yàn)和現(xiàn)實(shí)觀察中知道自己不想要什么。And don't get me wrong here. I'm not writing those things off. Those things are good. They are not bad, do not label any of what I'm saying as good or bad. Test it through your direct experience. Many of that I'm very big on creating a vision for your future. But the best way to do that is by also creating an anti vision, having a negative thing, something that you despise, something that will get you angry, because negative energy is very, very potent. It can be used and transmuted to actually achieve what you want in life. It's like when you're going to the gym, I'll be walking on the treadmill as a warm up. And i'll just think of what my life would be without the gym. Where could I end up if I don't put my all into that workout? And somehow I just get very, very pissed and I can feel that energy I'm not being pissed, isn't bad. Negative emotions aren't that? They exist. They are what they are and they should be used, not suppressed, but used for good.不要誤解我的意思。我并不否定想象的重要性。想象很美好,不是什么壞事,不要把我說的任何一點(diǎn)都貼上好或壞的標(biāo)簽。用你自己的親身經(jīng)歷來檢測它們。我非常重視為自己的未來創(chuàng)造愿景,但最好的方法是同時(shí)創(chuàng)造反愿景,創(chuàng)造負(fù)面的事物,創(chuàng)造一些你厭惡的東西,一些會讓你生氣的事情,因?yàn)樨?fù)能量的威力非常非常強(qiáng)大。實(shí)際上我們可以利用和轉(zhuǎn)化負(fù)能量,以實(shí)現(xiàn)生活中想要的目標(biāo)。比如當(dāng)你去健身房時(shí),我會在跑步機(jī)上做熱身運(yùn)動,然后我會想象,如果沒有健身房,我的生活會變成什么樣子?如果我不全力以赴進(jìn)行鍛煉,我會變成什么樣?不知何故,我會感到非常非常生氣,我會感受到那股能量,而生氣并不是壞事。負(fù)面情緒并非只有壞的一面。存在即合理,我們應(yīng)該利用負(fù)能量做一些有益的事情,而不是壓抑它們。So to create your anti vision, sit down with a notebook, become a mad scientist, draw out everything, sit with a notebook for 30 minutes and just draw out everything your entire future, but start with the anti-vision, write down every single thing that you do not want in this life. What do you not want to look like? What do you not want your future to be? What do you not want your day to look like on an everyday basis? And from that, it will be much clearer to you what your vision will actually be, because it's just the opposite of those things.因此,為了創(chuàng)造你的反愿景,你需要拿出一本筆記本,坐下來,假裝自己是一名狂熱的科學(xué)家,把所有想法都描繪出來,花30分鐘專心致志地在筆記本上繪制你的整個(gè)未來,但從反愿景開始描繪,寫下生活中一切你一點(diǎn)也不想要的東西。你不想變成什么樣子?你不想讓你的未來變成什么樣子?你不想讓每一天過成什么樣子?從反愿景中,你會更清晰地知道你真實(shí)的愿景會是什么,因?yàn)檎鎸?shí)的愿景就是你不想要事物的反面。And so when you look at your anti vision after creating it or as you're writing it, you should feel uncomfortable. You should feel very uncomfortable with the possibility of where you could end up in life if you do not take control of your life. With that discomfort, you should laser in on one big goal, laser in on your vision for the future. And this should be meaningful because your anti vision is usually meaningless. It comes from mindless action. It comes from not doing anything and letting entropy take hold and just drag your life into chaos. That's what entropy does. That is the supreme law of the universe. If you do not create order for your life, you will decline into chaos. In that same notebook with that vision for your future and your anti vision. Plan out, be the mad scientist that is going to work on the project of your life, create a plan, create a strategy for exactly what you are going to do on a day to day basis, week by week. Every single thing you're gonna do for the next week and write it out, get extremely specific, create the order. You do not be a victim of entropy.在你創(chuàng)建或?qū)懴履愕姆丛妇昂?,你?yīng)該會感到不舒服,你應(yīng)該會對你陷入的生活困境感到非常不舒服,如果你不能掌控自己的生活的話。伴隨著不舒服,你應(yīng)該把注意力集中在一項(xiàng)重要的目標(biāo)上,聚焦于你對未來的愿景,這才是有意義的,因?yàn)槟愕姆丛妇巴ǔJ呛翢o意義的。反愿景來自于無意識的行為,來自于不做任何事情,讓混亂占據(jù)主導(dǎo)地位,將你的生活拖入混亂之中。這就是熵的作用。這是宇宙的至高法則。如果你不為你的生活創(chuàng)建秩序,你將陷入混亂。在同一本筆記本里,既有你對未來愿景的構(gòu)想,又有你的反愿景。詳細(xì)計(jì)劃出來,成為那個(gè)將要致力于你一生的項(xiàng)目的狂熱科學(xué)家,制定一個(gè)計(jì)劃,制定一份詳細(xì)的日常和每周的行動策略。逐一列出接下來一周你要做的每件事情,要非常具體性,要非常明確,要井然有序。不要成為熵的受害者。Next, disappear. And whenever I say disappear, like disappear for 6 months. People take it literally. Almost every much of what I say is metaphorical and exaggerated to get the essence of the message across. I'm not saying, disappear, like your physical body is just gonna disappear. I'm saying disappear from the things that don't belong in your life, cut them out. This can be people, games, apps, or even bad habits, just become aware of the things that are holding you back. There are multiple ways to do this, but with the process that we've discussed and what's worked best for me is to just rip the band aid off, get rid of them all. You don't need to explain yourself here to other people that are gonna be messing you. Bro, where did you go? Just disappear.下一步,消失。每當(dāng)我說“消失”,比如消失6個(gè)月,人們往往從字面意思理解。我說的幾乎所有內(nèi)容都是比喻性的,夸張的,目的是傳達(dá)信息的本質(zhì)。我并不是說你的肉身要消失不見。我是說要讓那些不屬于你生活的東西消失,摒棄它們??赡苁侨?、游戲、應(yīng)用程序,甚至是不良習(xí)慣,只要意識到這些東西在拖累你。讓它們消失的方法很多,但根據(jù)我們討論過的方法,對我最有效的方法就是毫不猶豫地摒棄它們,摒棄全部。你不需要向那些干擾你的人做出解釋。有人會問:哥們,你去哪了?就直接消失吧。In other words, break your addiction with feeling like shit, because that feeling like shit has one cause and it has multiple causes, but we're talking about mental here, not physical, which would be attributed to something like nutrition or food, but mental energy that you are spending on people and things that don't give a *** about you and direct that mental energy that you now have into your vision for the future, because you have created a system that will prevent an entropy in your life. The thing that will take you from anti vision to vision the system there, and to maintain a system to prevent entropy, you need energy, in this case, mental energy to actualize or manifest that vision, If you want to call it that.換句話說,不要讓自己對糟糕的感受產(chǎn)生依賴,因?yàn)楦杏X糟糕通常有一個(gè)根本原因,也可能有多個(gè)原因,但我們討論的是心理層面,不是身體層面,身體糟糕可能與營養(yǎng)或食物等有關(guān),而是你花費(fèi)在對你漠不關(guān)心的人和事上的心理能量。將你現(xiàn)在擁有的心理能量投入到你對未來愿景的追求中,因?yàn)槟阋呀?jīng)建立了一個(gè)防止生活混亂的系統(tǒng)。那個(gè)系統(tǒng)將你從反愿景帶到愿景,而要維護(hù)那個(gè)防止生活混亂的系統(tǒng),你需要能量,你需要的是心理能量,去實(shí)現(xiàn)你的愿景,如果你愿意這樣稱呼的話。Last, make a habit of the boring fundamentals, but realize that the boring fundamentals are not boring, because most successful people they take the same repetitive actions on a day to day basis in a game, in like a game that mimics the real world. You are logging on, and you are repeating the same thing over and over to slowly level up over time. Right? 'You're killing monsters. You're going through dungeon. You're doing the same thing to stack experience. So you need to transfer that into the real world and move the levers that will actually take you towards your goals. These are fundamentals, these are principles, these aren't tactics.最后是,習(xí)慣忍耐無聊,埋頭苦干的基本功,但要認(rèn)識到看似無聊的基本功并不枯燥,因?yàn)榇蠖鄶?shù)成功的人每天都會重復(fù)相同的行動,就像在模擬現(xiàn)實(shí)世界的游戲中一樣。你登錄游戲,一遍又一遍地重復(fù)同樣的動作,以便隨著時(shí)間的推移逐漸提升段位。對吧?你在擊敗怪物,探索地牢,以重復(fù)基本功的方式積累經(jīng)驗(yàn)。因此,你需要將游戲世界的經(jīng)驗(yàn)轉(zhuǎn)化到現(xiàn)實(shí)世界中,操作那些實(shí)際會推動你實(shí)現(xiàn)目標(biāo)的杠桿。這些就是基本功,這些是原則,而不是奇淫巧技。And so understand that these are not boring. They seem boring on the surface. When you look at someone else doing it day in day out like this guy, dan, he writes for 30 minutes every morning. That's that seems so boring, but it's mastery over misery. It's like how sushi chefs. They take years to perfect the preparation of rice. It comes in stages like a tennis player. You first learn how to hold the racket. Then there is a very specific way to do that. Well, and then you move up to the next stage, which is how do you angle the racket? How do you hit the ball? You have to practice these things over and over and over again, like how you were learning to walk until it becomes effortless or unconscious. So you open up more mental energy to move on to the next thing that will take you ahead of the people that are trying to just get a result that would usually take 10 years to get in 2 weeks. That's just not gonna happen.要明白基本功并不乏味,只是表面上看起來很無聊。當(dāng)你看別人每天都在做這些事情時(shí),比如一個(gè)叫丹的家伙,他每天早上寫作30分鐘,似乎很無聊,但精通一項(xiàng)技能必須經(jīng)歷痛苦難受。就像壽司師傅,他們花很多年時(shí)間準(zhǔn)備米飯。高手是分階段訓(xùn)練成的,就像網(wǎng)球運(yùn)動員一樣。你首先要學(xué)會如何握拍。然后有一種非常具體的方法。嗯,然后你進(jìn)入下一個(gè)階段,那就是如何調(diào)整拍子的角度?如何擊球?你必須一遍又一遍地練習(xí)這些基本功,就像你學(xué)走路一樣,直到變得輕松自如,你需要更多心力去投入到下一件事情中,這將讓你遙遙領(lǐng)先,只想在兩周內(nèi)得到需要十年時(shí)間才能得到的結(jié)果,那是不可能的。So the question that everyone asks like, when you start something new is okay, when will I see this result? Like a tennis player? When will I be able to compete and stop asking that question? Because you're gonna get an answer that you don't want to hear and it's gonna throw you off track. It takes years, it takes an entire lifetime of trial and error to create a project, as I said, become a mad scientist. The essence of science is trial and error.所以,每當(dāng)嘗試新事物時(shí),每個(gè)人都會問一個(gè)問題,我什么時(shí)候能看到結(jié)果?就像網(wǎng)球運(yùn)動員一樣?我什么時(shí)候能夠參加比賽?不要再問這個(gè)問題了,因?yàn)槟銜牭侥悴幌肼牭拇鸢福矣賱t不達(dá)。這需要多年時(shí)間,需要一生的試驗(yàn)和錯誤才能創(chuàng)造一個(gè)項(xiàng)目,正如我所說的,成為一個(gè)狂熱的科學(xué)家??茖W(xué)的本質(zhì)就是試驗(yàn)和錯誤。So to perfect a project, your life that you are building out, it is going to take a lifetime, get comfortable with that, thought this entire process that we just went over of realizing what you don't want creating a strategy in launching yourself into the opposite direction and prioritizing long term success in mastery is the origin story. You will hear this in every origin story of a successful person. So flip the switch inside of you. New years is coming up, flip the switch inside of you and build a foundation that will carry you into the life you want.因此,要完善一個(gè)項(xiàng)目,打造自己的人生,需要一輩子的時(shí)間,要對此感到舒適自在。我們剛剛討論的整個(gè)流程,認(rèn)識到你不想要什么,制定策略并投身于相反的方向,并將長期成功和精通置于優(yōu)先位置,這就是最初階段的創(chuàng)業(yè)故事。你會在每個(gè)創(chuàng)業(yè)故事中聽到這一點(diǎn)。所以,在你內(nèi)心翻開這個(gè)開關(guān)吧。新的一年年即將到來,點(diǎn)燃你內(nèi)心的開關(guān),并打造一個(gè)能讓你走向你想要的生活的基礎(chǔ)。