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想要結(jié)婚嗎？先做“配對測試”吧！

Getting married? Take the quiz first

[ 2011-01-07 16:05 ]

A file photo of lovers. A British family law firm is urging couples to take a "compatibility quiz" before getting married or deciding to live together.

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A British family law firm is urging couples to take a "compatibility quiz" before getting married or deciding to live together.

Bross Bennett's compatibility test focuses on key questions about finances, family ties, children and aspirations that most couples struggle with and might have to answer anyway if their marriage breaks down and they end up divorcing.

Partner Ruth Bross compared taking the quiz to the kind of considerations and research an employer might make before hiring someone.

"No one who is truly committed to a relationship will ever mind making the full and frank disclosure that is asked of them; if they do, you might like to ask yourself why," she said in an emailed statement containing the quiz.

The quiz asks about assets and how each party would like to share them, what kind of relationships they have with their extended family and friends, whether they want children, their religious views, spending habits and career plans:

A copy of the quiz is below:

Finance

Do you know the extent of each other's assets? How do you both view the sharing of these assets? Do you have the same attitude to saving?

Will one of you want to put into a pension what the other wants to put into a new car?

Will you pool your resources or do you want to keep everything separate? Joint accounts or separate? Will you contribute in proportion to your incomes, or equally?

Are you going to have to pay off your partner's debts perhaps from what you thought was going to be the deposit on your house?

Family Ties

What sort of relationship do you have with your extended family? Are they good at staying in touch? Are they local? Affectionate? Over-involved? Have you had any major fallings out?

Children

Do you want children? How many? How do you want to raise your children? What sort of values do you want to pass on?

Religion

What are your religious views -- do you agree on what religion you will bring up the children in? Church/mosque/synagogue? Once a week or once a year? Or no religion at all.

Leisure and fun

Do you like doing the same things in your spare time? Do you share common interests? Is your idea of a holiday lying flat on the beach for two weeks and your partner's rock-climbing?

Lifestyle

What sort of lifestyle are you aiming for? Where do you want to live?

Spending

Do you have an expensive shoe or gadget habit? Does one of you think of a particular purchase as an essential that the other regards as a "discretionary spend"? Do you have any other secret addictions: handbags, chocolate, football? Do you gamble, online or otherwise?

Work

Are your respective career paths compatible, is either of you going to have to make compromises? Are you prepared to? Will you want to give up work when you have children? What does your partner think about this and can you manage financially? What about part-time working?

Roles - traditional or modern?

Will you expect to live along traditional lines: woman as homemaker and man as breadwinner? Who will organise the finances? Will household responsibilities be shared equally? Who will assume responsibility for paying bills?

Honesty

Are there any old flames for whom you still hold a candle?

(Read by Lee Hannon. Lee Hannon is a journalist at the China Daily Website.)

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英國一家家庭法律事務(wù)所建議情侶們在結(jié)婚或決定同居之前先做個“配對測試”。

布洛斯•貝內(nèi)特事務(wù)所的“配對測試”主要考察金錢、家庭關(guān)系、孩子、以及志向等方面的關(guān)鍵問題。這些都是婚姻破裂，以離婚收場時，大多數(shù)夫婦都糾纏不休，又不得不面對的問題。

事務(wù)所合伙人魯思•布洛斯將做這項測試比作老板招聘員工前的考查。

她在談到這項測試的一封郵件聲明中說：“真正對兩人的關(guān)系認(rèn)真負(fù)責(zé)的人不會介意毫無保留而且坦誠地回答這些問題，如果他們介意的話，你就要問問自己為什么了。”

測試中提到的問題包括財產(chǎn)，以及每位家庭成員將如何分享這些；與親友的關(guān)系如何；是否想要孩子；宗教信仰；消費習(xí)慣；以及職業(yè)規(guī)劃等。

下面就來看看這些測試題吧：

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