第一,你讓自己接受了“金錢(qián)并不重要”這個(gè)觀點(diǎn)。
人們很不幸地淪為“金錢(qián)并不重要”這個(gè)謊言的犧牲品。這正好也說(shuō)明了他們財(cái)務(wù)緊張的原因——如果你認(rèn)為擁有大把大把鈔票不是人生中的一件大事,那你自然不會(huì)成為富翁。
如果你覺(jué)得鸚鵡對(duì)你來(lái)說(shuō)一點(diǎn)都不重要,你會(huì)買(mǎi)下一只來(lái)當(dāng)寵物嗎?當(dāng)然不會(huì)!只有你非常非常想要得到一樣?xùn)|西,你才會(huì)有可能獲得它。
如果擁有一幢房子或公寓是你最最渴望實(shí)現(xiàn)的目標(biāo)的話(huà),那你最終住進(jìn)一幢房子或公寓的機(jī)會(huì)就很大。如果生存是你眼下最最緊要的一件事,那么你會(huì)為了生存付出一切,但你的人生不會(huì)走向富足,因?yàn)楦蛔銓?duì)你來(lái)說(shuō)一點(diǎn)都不重要。
生活中的成功與我們對(duì)此事的在意程度密切相關(guān)。要是你生活中缺失了某樣?xùn)|西,那是因?yàn)槟銢](méi)有給予它足夠的關(guān)注。你應(yīng)該把掙錢(qián)放在非常重要的位置,因?yàn)榻疱X(qián)決定了你衣食住行的品質(zhì),也決定了你所能接受的教育、醫(yī)療的好壞。擁有財(cái)富,你可以幫助更多的人,還能讓子女過(guò)上更好的生活。
第二,你自認(rèn)為不夠格成為富翁。
成百上萬(wàn)的人每天都被各種財(cái)務(wù)問(wèn)題困擾著,僅僅是因?yàn)樗麄儾幌嘈抛约耗艹蔀楦晃獭!柏?cái)富只屬于別人”,這是多數(shù)人頭腦中所持有的成見(jiàn),而這種想法的源頭卻來(lái)自于好心的父母、善良的信仰,以及媒體的宣揚(yáng)。雖然我現(xiàn)在已經(jīng)擺脫了這些想法的束縛,但我過(guò)去也碰到過(guò)這些問(wèn)題。
如今我所持有的觀點(diǎn)就是:“如果你能做得到,那我也可以,甚至可以做得比你更棒、更快、更好?!边@并不是說(shuō)我變得傲慢了,而是我發(fā)現(xiàn)世上沒(méi)有重要的人和不重要的人這種說(shuō)法。我們每一個(gè)人都是同等重要的,我們每個(gè)人都理應(yīng)得到各自真正想要的東西。
第三,你不知道自己想要的是什么。
如果你不知道自己想要的是什么,你就很難有所收獲。你必須要明確自己想要的生活。不論你想要的是在家工作,還是每年出國(guó)度6次假,都可以,關(guān)鍵是要明確你想要的是什么。
第四,你沒(méi)有相應(yīng)地創(chuàng)造財(cái)富和管理財(cái)富的計(jì)劃。
一旦你明確了你想要達(dá)到的財(cái)務(wù)目標(biāo),你一定要想出一個(gè)能實(shí)現(xiàn)它的計(jì)劃。你應(yīng)當(dāng)嚴(yán)格控制預(yù)算。你也應(yīng)當(dāng)發(fā)揮自己的技能和天賦制定出能給你帶來(lái)更多收入的方案。
第五,你不知道該去做什么。
馬爾科姆·福布斯(Malcolm。Forbes)曾說(shuō):“人們一生中所犯的最大的一個(gè)錯(cuò)誤就是沒(méi)有去做他們最為享受的那件事?!比绻銓?duì)一項(xiàng)事業(yè)沒(méi)有興趣的話(huà),就不要投身進(jìn)去。幾年前我打算購(gòu)買(mǎi)幾家非常流行的女性健身中心,因?yàn)槟菚r(shí)我覺(jué)得這是一筆很不錯(cuò)的投資。幸好我最終沒(méi)有那樣去做,因?yàn)槲覍?duì)這項(xiàng)生意的興趣真的不是很大。盡管我熱愛(ài)健身,但對(duì)運(yùn)營(yíng)一個(gè)健身中心并無(wú)多大熱情,所以我肯定會(huì)被其他熱愛(ài)這項(xiàng)事業(yè)的健身房老板淘汰掉。
如果你熱愛(ài)一件事,那你整天都能埋頭于這件事而不覺(jué)得無(wú)聊,這樣你才能在這個(gè)領(lǐng)域內(nèi)出類(lèi)拔萃。如果你全力以赴地去做你真心熱愛(ài)的事情,那沒(méi)有人會(huì)是你的對(duì)手。
所以,先發(fā)現(xiàn)自己所熱愛(ài)的事情。如果你書(shū)房里擺滿(mǎn)了關(guān)于不動(dòng)產(chǎn)的書(shū)籍,那就可以說(shuō)明你的激情之所在了。如果你書(shū)架上放滿(mǎn)了非虛構(gòu)類(lèi)文學(xué)作品,那就意味著你很想逃避現(xiàn)實(shí)。
第六,你沒(méi)有像富翁那樣去思考。
富翁的思維都是有規(guī)律可循的,如果你也照著他們的思路去思考,那你也能成為富翁。用詹姆斯·艾倫的話(huà)來(lái)說(shuō)就是“人即心智。”如果你改變心智,那你就可以改變一個(gè)人。你可以通過(guò)改變一個(gè)人的思維傾向來(lái)改變他的思想。如果你老是與一些認(rèn)為人生不易的人混在一起,那成功對(duì)你來(lái)說(shuō)就真的是非常渺茫。如果你和那些討論著油價(jià)是如何重塑他們的生活的人混在一起,你也就很難取得成功。
你是一個(gè)創(chuàng)造者,就要像一個(gè)創(chuàng)造者那樣去思考。把思想都聚焦在你渴望的而非你不愿看到的事情上,你就可以給自己的人生注入許多積極美好的事情。
第七,你沒(méi)有像富翁那樣行事。
富翁會(huì)立刻采取行動(dòng),因?yàn)槊魈煊肋h(yuǎn)都不會(huì)到來(lái)。當(dāng)你來(lái)到了你所謂的未來(lái)的時(shí)候,你所處的時(shí)間點(diǎn)依然是當(dāng)下。
當(dāng)下是你所擁有的一切,所以你一定要立刻采取行動(dòng)。先寫(xiě)下能讓你一步步接近目標(biāo)的行動(dòng)步驟。然后立刻采取行動(dòng),而且每天都要堅(jiān)持去做。
要是你有激情、有信念,你很快就會(huì)發(fā)現(xiàn)成功是你理應(yīng)得到的獎(jiǎng)賞。當(dāng)然,成功之路需要你付出許多努力。和有些人所想的恰恰相反的就是,富翁工作都很努力。
也許你用不著一輩子去努力工作,但在你事業(yè)或創(chuàng)業(yè)初期,你必然要付出許許多多的汗水。為了推出自己的產(chǎn)品或服務(wù),你很有可能就會(huì)感到筋疲力盡。這都很正常,也不是什么多大的問(wèn)題,因?yàn)楫?dāng)你對(duì)你的目標(biāo)充滿(mǎn)激情之時(shí),你可以每周努力工作80—100個(gè)小時(shí),且依然感覺(jué)非常棒。
You are not a rich man is a reason:
First, you allow yourself to accept " the money is not important " this view.
It is unfortunately becoming " the money is not important " this lies the victim. It also explains why they tight financial -- if you think you have a lot of money is not a major event in life, then you will not become a millionaire.
If you think the parrot to you is not important at all, you will buy one as a pet? Of course not! If you really want something, you will likely get it.
If you have a house or apartment is to achieve the most you want the most words, that you live in a house or apartment have a great chance. If you live is now the most important thing, then you will do everything in order to survive, but your life will not go off, because the rich for you is not important at all.
Success in life with the US on this matter is closely related to the degree of care. If your life is missing something, it is because you didn't pay attention to it. You should put the money in a very important position, because money decides your basic necessities of life quality, also the decision you have to accept the education, medical quality. The possession of wealth, you can help more people, also can let their children a better life.
Second, you think you are not qualified to be millionaire.
Hundreds of people every day is a variety of financial problems, just because they don't believe he can become a millionaire. " Wealth belongs to others ", which is held by many people in the mind of the prejudice, and the idea of the source is from well-meaning parents, good faith, and media publicity. Although I have now to get rid of these ideas were bound, but I have also encountered these problems.
Now I hold the view that: " if you can do it, then I can, can even do better than you better, faster, better. " This is not to say that I become arrogant, but I found nobody important and unimportant people of this world. Every one of us is equally important, everyone of us should get their own what you want.
Third, you don't know what you want.
If you don't know what you want, you will be very difficult to have the harvest. You must clear the life you want. Whether you want to work at home or abroad, every year 6 false, can be, the key is to get clear about what you want.
Fourth, you did not create wealth and wealth management accordingly plan.
Once you define what you want to achieve financial goals, you have to come up with a plan to achieve it. You should strictly control the budget. You should also use their skills and talents to develop can bring more revenue to your plan.
Fifth, you don't know what to do.
Malcolm Forbes ( Malcolm. Forbes ) once said: " one of the biggest mistake people make in life is not to do what they enjoy most about that. " If you're not interested in a cause, don't go in. A few years ago I intend to buy several very popular women's fitness center, because I think this is a good investment. Fortunately, I did not do that, because I am really interested in this business is not great. Although I love fitness, but the operation of a fitness center is not much enthusiasm, so I will certainly be other love this cause gym boss eliminated.
If you love a thing, that you all can apply this thing and not feel boring, so you can rise above the common herd in this field. If things go to all lengths to you to do what you truly love, that no one will be your opponent.
So, first discovered what I love to do. If you study filled with about immovable books, you can show your passions. If you were shelves full of non-fiction literature works, it means you want to escape from the reality.
Sixth, you are not as rich as to think.
The millionaire 's thinking is to follow the law, if you follow their ideas to think about, you can become a millionaire. In James Alan's words, " who is the mind. " If you change your mind, then you can change a person. You can change his mind by changing one's thinking tendency. If you always and some think that life is not easy people mixed together, then success for you is really very slim. If you and the oil price is how to reconstruct their lives together, you will be very difficult to succeed.
You are a creator, have to think like a creator. His thoughts are focused on you want instead of what you don't want to see that happen, you can give your life into many good and positive things.
Seventh, you are not as rich as act.
The millionaire will take action immediately, because tomorrow will never come. When you come to you the next time, you the time is still present.
The present is what you have, so you must take immediate action. First write down action steps can make you one step closer to the target. And take action immediately, but must adhere to do every day.
If you have passion, have faith, you will soon find success you deserve a reward. Of course, the road to success you need to pay a lot of effort. Is opposite and some people think that the rich, work hard.
Maybe you don't have a lifetime to work hard, but early in your career or business, you must pay a lot of sweat. In order to launch their own products or services, you are likely to feel be tired out. This is normal, is not much of a problem, because when you're on your goal with passion, you can try weekly work 80 to 100 hours, and still feel very good.
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