二十來歲，我們處于小孩和大人的轉(zhuǎn)角，處于象牙塔和社會的邊界。
迷茫、熱血、期望、失落，面對這個光怪陸離的世界，我們想的很多，做的卻很少;渴望遠(yuǎn)方，卻也懼怕著外面的世界。
然而，外面的世界不一定很精彩，卻一定少不了無奈。
在你二十來歲的時(shí)候，生活教會了你什么呢?
Love yourself
愛自己
Such a simple concept, but one that many are still unable to grasp. Loving someone more than yourself may seem like some huge selfless act. But believe me when I say that self love and self worth are the two more influential acts of all time – because it speaks for itself. Cliché but true. There is no need to prove when you love and that is the beauty of it. When you understand the importance of loving yourself, you make changes that will indirectly impact the lives of others.
如此簡單的一個概念，但是至今許多人還是無法明白。愛別人勝過愛自己看起來好像是一種特別無私和偉大的行為，但其實(shí)自愛和自尊才是真正有價(jià)值且偉大的行為，因?yàn)閻蹌e人的前提正是愛自己。但你愛上一個人時(shí)，這種愛更多是一種自然流露，無需雙方去刻意證明和表現(xiàn)。當(dāng)你真正懂得愛自己后，你也就會懂得如何去愛身邊的人了!
Get out of that comfort zone
逃離舒適區(qū)
Iknow how addictive the comfort zone can get, it is a safe house. Walls are up high and we are kept safe from all the daggers and discomfort the world brings.
But is this what life is about? Digging a hole on the battlefield hoping to hide it out till the war is over. Life is about taking on the battle, pushing yourself to greater heights. You deserve a life of amazing adventures, stop hiding in your little cave. Go out, have fun, get hurt or fall but come back up and soldier on. Change should always be the constant, take that leap of faith.
大多數(shù)時(shí)候人們對于舒適和穩(wěn)定都非常的向往和迷戀，有如此一個安全屋舒舒服服的待著誰愿意主動放棄和逃離呢!當(dāng)人們躲在一個舒舒服服的區(qū)域，給自己筑起一道道圍墻，好像這樣就能躲避外界所有的危險(xiǎn)壓力和挑戰(zhàn)。但是生活真的不是你以為的就是你以為的，在生活的戰(zhàn)場上你的行為就像一個逃兵在戰(zhàn)場上給自己挖個洞躲起來直到戰(zhàn)爭結(jié)束后再出來。生活這場戰(zhàn)爭要求我們每個人迎難而上，勇敢的走出舒適區(qū)去迎接各種挑戰(zhàn)。生命只有一次，你的生命理應(yīng)更加精彩。所以不要再每天重復(fù)著一樣的日子還一邊抱怨著為什么我不能去追逐詩和遠(yuǎn)方，你要做的是放下無用的抱怨說走就走，去經(jīng)歷去看這個世界，然后以一個戰(zhàn)士的姿態(tài)重拾你的工作和生活。面對一成不變的生活，永遠(yuǎn)要抱著一顆隨時(shí)改變和調(diào)整的態(tài)度，勇敢的走出你的舒適區(qū)，才能迎來人生更美麗的風(fēng)景。永遠(yuǎn)要記住，熟悉的地方?jīng)]有風(fēng)景!
Be grateful
感恩的心
Icannot stress enough the importance of being grateful. No matter how rich or poor, I know that most of us are at the very least, fortunate enough to have a roof over our heads. In the midst of our crazy lives or even a bad day, we tend to forget how fortunate we are. Being grateful about the smallest things in life reminds you not to take what you have for granted. You will tend to appreciate the things you have in life and in turn become happier as a person.
感恩永遠(yuǎn)是最需要提醒的一件事情。無論人們貧窮還是富有，至少我們大多數(shù)人都有一個可以遮風(fēng)擋雨的房子一個溫暖的家，這本身就是一件非常幸運(yùn)的事情。可惜在生活中我們常常忘記了這一點(diǎn)。所以一顆感恩的心會時(shí)刻提醒你擁有的一切都不是想當(dāng)然的，它會讓你懂得珍惜我們所擁有的一切。就像張懸的那首歌唱的一樣，我們擁有的都是僥幸，失去的都是人生!懂得感恩的人總是會欣賞和感激生活中遇見的人和事，同時(shí)自己也會成為那個更加快樂幸福的人!
Things happen for a reason
任何事情的發(fā)生都是有原因的
Ibelieve that everything happens for a reason and for reasons unknown, we shall not question. We humans try to seek answers and make reason for everything. When something doesn’t go our way, we start to question life, ourselves or even a higher power. Give life your best shot. Stop trying to find what went wrong and how you can ‘try to fix things’. Things happen for a reason, sometimes its best to leave it that way.
我總是相信任何事情的發(fā)生總是有某些原因的，所以我就不會再追問到底。人們已經(jīng)習(xí)慣了任何事情都要找出一個答案，每件事情都要找一個原因。每當(dāng)事情沒有按照我們的想象發(fā)生，我們就會開始質(zhì)疑自己和人生。當(dāng)一件事情結(jié)果已定，我們就不要再追究到底，一直折磨自己和別人。生活中所有的事情的發(fā)生總是有原因的，而且有的結(jié)果是我們本身無法控制的，所以對于我們改變不了的結(jié)果和事情就要學(xué)會接受，放手隨它去吧!
Be Positive
積極樂觀
Honestly, no one likes a grumpy soul. Be positive and emit positive energy to those around you. No matter how bad your day can get, the ones around do not deserved to be dragged to hell alongside with you. Give yourself that positivity, look on the bright side of situations. Everyone deserves positive energy in their lives.
老實(shí)說沒有人會喜歡一個整天抱怨?jié)M是悲傷的人。所以要做一個積極樂觀的人，同時(shí)將積極的正能量傳遞給你身邊的每一個人。不論你自己過得如何不開心，但是你身邊的人都不該也被你拖進(jìn)這種悲傷痛苦的深淵。每天給自己一些正能量，學(xué)著看到事情好的一面。生活中學(xué)會以積極樂觀的態(tài)度去面對一切，將快樂傳遞給身邊的人，這樣你也會收獲快樂。
You are always a work in progress
你總是在進(jìn)步
You are always a work in progress and know that, that is not a bad thing! Always allow yourself room for errors and room to grow. The world can be cruel, people may turn their backs on you. But the only person you need to have faith in is yourself. Take on the highs and lows of life, you are stronger than you think you are.
你總是在進(jìn)步的，知道這一點(diǎn)其實(shí)是一件好事。因?yàn)槟憧偸菚o自己留下改正錯誤和成長進(jìn)步的機(jī)會和空間。世界其實(shí)非常殘酷，總有些人會選擇離你而去。但是沒關(guān)系你唯一需要相信的人就是你自己，獨(dú)自一人經(jīng)歷過了人生的起起伏伏，就會發(fā)現(xiàn)其實(shí)你比自己想象的還要堅(jiān)強(qiáng)。
杜秋娘的一句“勸君莫惜金縷衣，勸君惜取少年時(shí)”，我們耳熟能詳，但真的有做到嗎?
希望大家在新的一年里，能學(xué)習(xí)更多，成長更多。
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