日得一悟3 kids vs parents
一小孩雖努力,但功課不怎么樣。孩子因成績不好,被家長罵笨鳥,孩子不服氣地說:“世界上笨鳥有三種,一種是先飛,一種是嫌累不飛的?!?/span>
家長問:“那第三種呢?”
孩子說:“這種最討厭,自己飛不起來,就在窩里下個蛋,要下一代使勁飛。”家長立馬尷尬無語。
感悟:
家長總是對孩子的成績恨鐵不成鋼,卻忽略了遺傳基因的重要性。
自己做不到的事,不要總把希望寄托于他人,哪怕是自己的孩子。
Hard as a child studies , yet his grades are not so good.Because of his poor academic record, the child was scolded and called stupid bird by his parent .At this, the child responded unwillingly ,unconvinced," There are three kinds of stupid birds in the world, one to take the lead in flying, one too tired not to fly."The puzzled parent asked," What about the third one?"The child faintly said," It is the most annoying.Unable to fly up itself ,it just lies in the nest to lay an egg, forcing it to fly hard." Immediately so embarrassed was the parent as to be speechless.
Insight: parents are always haunted with gloomy thoughts?of their children's school achievements ,complaining about iron not to be steel, but unconsciously ignoring the effect of the genetic blueprint on their kids .Never impose what you fail to do on others, even your own children.
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