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This afternoon something on WeChat caught my attention: the latest news about Tong Yali and Chen Sicheng going through the official procedures for divorce.

在微博上看到最新的消息稱(chēng)，佟麗婭和和陳思誠(chéng)正在辦理離婚手續(xù)。

The news came from the broker of a friend of Tong’s, claiming that almost all people around knew all about it.

這則消息是傳自佟麗婭朋友的經(jīng)紀(jì)人，稱(chēng)他們身邊的人基本上都知道這件事。

However, when Tong Yali appeared in the airport yesterday, some eagle-eyed net friends discovered that she didn’t wear the wedding ring and that Ya Ya (the nickname of Tong Yali) did not give the Weibo blessing to Chen Sicheng on his birthday.

而在昨天佟麗婭在機(jī)場(chǎng)出現(xiàn)時(shí)被眼尖的網(wǎng)友發(fā)現(xiàn)沒(méi)有戴婚戒，陳思誠(chéng)生日時(shí)丫丫也沒(méi)有在送上微博祝福。

When the news came out, everyone was guessing as to whether both of them had handled the divorce by agreement.

于是消息一出，大家都紛紛猜議兩個(gè)人或已經(jīng)協(xié)議離婚。

Although the interested parties didn’t give any response, such news indeed blew our mind (blew one's mind :令人十分震驚)) not a little.

雖然當(dāng)事人均未進(jìn)行回應(yīng)，但這樣的消息也確實(shí)讓人感到驚訝。

I

According to the previous love affairs of some superstars, in the end, generally, one side had to tolerantly come to terms (妥協(xié); 甘心忍受; 讓步).

按照以往明星出軌風(fēng)波，一般最后的結(jié)果都是一方忍耐和原諒。

Such superstars as Ma Yili and Xie Xingfang eventually chose to make a compromise: one accepts the principle “To cherish and to move on” while the other expresses her idea “it would be better if he admits the mistake and can turn over a new leaf (重新開(kāi)始)”.

無(wú)論是馬伊琍，謝杏芳，最后都選擇了原諒，一個(gè)是“且行且珍惜”，一個(gè)是“知錯(cuò)能改就好?！?/span>

In January Paparazzi broke the news that Chen Sicheng left behind Tong Liya and their kid but stayed overnight with two young girls. But after the nasty scenes were photographed, every one of us are waiting for the outcome of the event.

從1月份的狗仔爆料說(shuō)陳思誠(chéng)撇下家中的佟麗婭和孩子，獨(dú)自和兩個(gè)女生一起出去過(guò)夜，被拍到讓人想入非非的場(chǎng)景后，大家都在等待著這件事的結(jié)果。

I expect the possible subsequent news report about “Tong Yali is generous enough to forgive Chen Sicheng and is willing to stand together through thick and thin”, etc.

我也以為新聞上會(huì)出現(xiàn)“佟麗婭大度原諒陳思誠(chéng)，愿風(fēng)雨同舟”之類(lèi)的新聞。

But after that, Tong Yali only replied simply, “Start anew and Ya Ya, way to go (就該這么做; 加油)!”

但之后佟麗婭也只簡(jiǎn)單地回應(yīng)了一句話：“重新開(kāi)始，丫丫加油?！?/span>

At that moment, I thought “start anew” might mean that she chose to forgive.

那時(shí)想著重新開(kāi)始的意思可能也還是選擇原諒吧。

But now when the news caught my eye (吸引我的眼球), I felt quite distressed, but at the same time I rejoiced over (為...非常高興；深感欣喜) the courage of Ya Ya.

如今看到這樣的消息，有些心疼，但又為丫丫的勇敢感到高興。

II

Whether it is for superstars or the average people, it's a tough thing (殘酷的現(xiàn)實(shí); 艱難的事情) to get divorced.

不管是對(duì)于明星來(lái)說(shuō)，還是普通人，離婚都是一件很難的事情吧。

It is not that we are unwilling to do so on many occasions but that we are emotionally involved with entanglements. One of the most important factors is the family, particularly the kids.

很多時(shí)候倒不是因?yàn)樽约翰辉敢?，而是因?yàn)橛刑嗟臓拷O。一個(gè)很重要的因素是因?yàn)榧彝ズ秃⒆印?/span>

Before I moved out, I witnessed the whole story about a couple next door to me. 

在還沒(méi)搬家之前，我曾親眼見(jiàn)證了鄰居一對(duì)夫婦的故事。

It’s four years since the husband and the wife got married and their kid is just one year old. It happened that in the third year after their marriage, the wife found that her husband had a love affair with someone else.

夫妻雙方結(jié)婚四年，孩子剛滿(mǎn)一歲，但在結(jié)婚但三年的時(shí)候，妻子發(fā)現(xiàn)了丈夫有了外遇。

Then she used to come over to my home, and my Daddy and Mom kept persuading her into communicating with her husband with more tolerance and patience.

那時(shí)她經(jīng)常來(lái)我家，而我爸媽也一直勸她嘗試著去溝通，多些寬容和忍耐。

To my mind, if the communication was of any help in the case of marriage infidelity, she would not have turned to me for a talk.

但我想如果對(duì)于出軌溝通有用的話，她也不會(huì)找人傾訴了。

Once she came to my home and talked over this matter with me, I said in a low voice, “In face of such a bitter situation, why not get divorce right away?”

有一次她來(lái)我家時(shí)又討論到了這件事情，我輕聲地說(shuō)了句：“這么辛苦，要不就離了吧?！?/span>

Mom gave me such a black look (怒氣沖沖的樣子) at me, saying: “You are young and inexperienced, how can you say like that: Divorce is not at all so simple.”

我媽狠狠地瞪了我一眼，說(shuō)道：“小孩子懂什么，你說(shuō)離就離啊。”

Up to now I don’t know what happened to that sister, but if she still lives with the one who does not love her any more, she can not enjoy herself anyhow.

雖然到現(xiàn)在我也不知道最終那位姐姐怎么樣了，但如果和已經(jīng)不愛(ài)自己的人生活輩子，大概也會(huì)過(guò)得很不開(kāi)心。

We all expect to grow old together with our loved one, but it never occurs to us that we may be tied up in an unhappy marriage.

本想著和一個(gè)自己喜歡的人白頭到老，卻沒(méi)想到被綁在不幸的婚姻中。

III

I remember having written an article entitled “Unfaithful man is to be killed on site with an explosion” and a reader left such a message: “What should the person cheated by the unfaithful husband or wife do?

之前曾經(jīng)寫(xiě)過(guò)一篇《出軌的人都應(yīng)該原地爆炸》，那時(shí)有一位讀者留言說(shuō)：“那被出軌的人呢，又應(yīng)該怎么辦？”

I replied, “Enjoy a life with someone better than him.”

我回復(fù)說(shuō)：“去過(guò)得比他好。”

As for the love infidelity, I prefer the way Xu Jing and Zhang Yuqi dealt with the love affairs of their unfaithful spouses.

對(duì)于出軌的愛(ài)情，我更喜歡像許婧，張雨綺那樣的做法。

I remembered Tong Liya felt greatly embarrassed when the reporter called her “Mr. Chen” in an interview. As for her, she wanted to let everyone know: “I am an actress and a hardworking one.”

記得佟麗婭曾在一次采訪中表示陳太太這個(gè)身份其實(shí)讓她有些尷尬，對(duì)于她來(lái)說(shuō)，她更想告訴大家的是“我是一個(gè)女演員，一個(gè)努力的女演員”。

It is hoped that Ya Ya can recover herself from this shadow and try to be optimistic and brave enough just like the movie “A True Man” to live her own life like a queen. You have your own without Chen Sicheng.

沒(méi)有了陳思誠(chéng)，你還有你自己。希望丫丫也能從這次事件中走出來(lái)，像《真正男子漢》中一樣樂(lè)觀勇敢，去活成自己的女王。

Also, it is hoped that we will never say Uncle to  (認(rèn)輸;投降)“Marriage Infidelity”.

 也希望我們永遠(yuǎn)不會(huì)對(duì)出軌妥協(xié)。

★  英文：Andrew 

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